Young, Flirty, and Not Thriving

2:1 Changing Careers, Our Dream Destinations, and Justifying a Single or Child-Free Life

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

 We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

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Timestamps:
Question One: How did you guys know what you wanted to do? Did it ever change? Any advice for people who are starting to figure out their career or thinking about changing. (31:21)
Question Two: Where do you want to end up living? Like location/area? What career/profession do you want for the rest of your life? (43:15)
Question Three: Do you get along with all of your siblings as adults?(56:30)

1:10 Season Finale & Audience HOT TAKEover

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

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1:8 Nosy Friends & Messy Breakups

Thanks for tuning in to “Young, Flirty, and Not Thriving”! We hope you enjoyed today’s podcast. If you have a question you would like to submit for advice, please either click on the link down below or on our Instagram page. 

 

**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

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Hot Takes Submissions: https://forms.gle/DTGdtzEjHNj7Kcuz5 

 

Timestamps:

Question One: How to tell a friend that the person they're dating isn't good/and they're not taking the hints? (25:55)

Question Two: How do you know when to end a relationship? (35:15)

Question Three: Should you date someone knowing that it's not going to last? (47:00)

1:7 Self-Confidence

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

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Timestamps:

Question One: How do you date during covid? 19:30

Question Two (multiple): 

-What to do when people tell you that you should change your clothes/hair/appearance, "you should worry about your skin more, wear makeup. You should care what people think about"

-How to deal with family/friends/strangers saying you need to lose weight, eat better, don’t eat so much/they keep bringing up your weight and how you look. What to say to them and how to let it not get to you?

-How to get self confidence and keep it. and not let people make you lose it? 26:54

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

-Watch Netflix with a date or with your friends virtually:

https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/watch-netflix-together/fdjglnlhapkoahdmanogpccpmmpnakje?hl=en

-https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.goodtherapy.org/blog/women-and-self-worth-5-steps-to-improving-self-esteem-0829184/amp/

1:6 Roommate Drama, Balancing Life, & Experiencing a Faith Crisis

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

Facebook: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

Instagram: @youngflirtyandnotthriving

Podcast: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

E-mail: youngflirtyandnotthriving@gmail.com

Google Forms (for advice questions for the show): forms.gle/6EHk4ZNTNqTKPAZT9

 

Timestamps:

Question One: I'm dealing with some rough roommate drama right now. What is the worst roommate situation you have ever found yourself in, and how did you deal with it? (23:55)

Question Two: I am struggling to find the balance between wearing the badge of honor that comes with being busy and then having days of complete laziness. Like I get stuck in an all or nothing cycle. I feel better when I'm busy and productive (I do feel busy with good things), but when I finish and I take a break, I struggle to get started again. Any tips to improve a consistent level/attitude of productivity? (46:42)

Question Three: I have also found myself in a faith crisis lately, how did you handle it initially? (1:00:03)

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

https://www.franklincovey.com/the-7-habits/

https://www.playyourwaysane.com/blog/cognitive-reframing-challenge

Instas mentioned:

@ drjuliehanks

@ papa_ostler

@  rosiecard

@ themormonhippie

https://www.listenlearnandlove.org/podcasts

1:5 Dating Apps and How We Chose Our Majors (feat. Joe and Jonah Walsh)

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

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Instagram: @youngflirtyandnotthriving

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E-mail: youngflirtyandnotthriving@gmail.com

Google Forms (for advice questions for the show): forms.gle/6EHk4ZNTNqTKPAZT9

 

Timestamps:

Question One: Opinion on finding love thru dating apps & if they’re worth it/if you think they’ve helped or hurt the dating world? And if you think they ARE worth it, how do you suggest navigating them? ps love you both, y’all are amazing (Lauren, she/her, 25) 20:15

Question Two: What to do when your family members pick on you and you hate it. But then responds that they only do it because they love you? (Anon) 42:44

Question Three: What did you study in college? How did you choose a major you like? (Kelsi, 28, she/her) 53:19

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

@howdoyousurviveyour20s (instagram and twitter)

howdoyousurviveyour20s.com

1:4 How to Support the LDS LGBTQ+ Community & Dealing with Pressure to Get Married & Have Kids

Thanks for tuning in to “Young, Flirty, and Not Thriving”! We hope you enjoyed today’s podcast. If you have a question you would like to submit for advice, please either click on the link down below or on our Instagram page. 

 

**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

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Instagram: @youngflirtyandnotthriving

Podcast: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

E-mail: youngflirtyandnotthriving@gmail.com

Google Forms (for advice questions for the show): forms.gle/6EHk4ZNTNqTKPAZT9

 

Timestamps:

Question One: What are you looking for in a partner?/what made you know your husband was the ONE? 22:30

Question Two: Thought on family pressuring you to get married/have kids/have more kids? 39:45

Question Three: What are your thoughts on some LDS members not accepting or wanting LGBTQ+ members to change? 1:01:38

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

Over the Top- Jonathan Van Ness

Richard Ostler Podcast

You Will Get through this Night-Daniel Howell

Without the Mask- Charlie Bird

1:3 Lacking Family Support & Not Ready to Say ”I Love You”

**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

Facebook: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

Instagram: @youngflirtyandnotthriving

Podcast: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

E-mail: youngflirtyandnotthriving@gmail.com

Google Forms (for advice questions for the show): forms.gle/6EHk4ZNTNqTKPAZT9

 

Timestamps:

Question One: What do you say to someone after they said I love you and you're not ready to say it back? 21:34

Question Two: How to deal with family not supporting/trusting you in your decision in life? 30:22

Question Three: How do you feel body positivity and self love? I feel like I’ve gotten better at it but sometimes I struggle, especially with all the stress of COVID and Lockdown. 40:25

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

https://soundcloud.com/user-818501778/episode-431-raini-stock-rm-faith-crisis-mental-health-garments-returning-to-church 

1:2 Helping Friends and Navigating Body Dysmorphia

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised. 

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

Instagram: @youngflirtyandnotthriving

Podcast: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

E-mail: youngflirtyandnotthriving@gmail.com

Google Forms (for advice questions for the show): forms.gle/6EHk4ZNTNqTKPAZT9

 

Timestamps:

Question One: How do I help a friend who is struggling with mental health? 20:50

Question Two: How can I tell my parents or partner that I’m struggling with mental health? 30:10

Question Three: What advice would you give to someone with body dysmorphia? 37:00

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

• https://www.google.com/search?q=what+is+body+dysphoria&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS917US917&oq=what+is+body+d&aqs=chrome.2.69i57j0l9.5723j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
• https://www.montenido.com/transgender-anorexia-dysphoria-vs-dysmorphia/
• https://bddfoundation.org/about/contact/

 

1:1 Introduction and Personal Mental Health Awareness

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**Disclaimer: We would like to inform our listeners that all of our advice is solely from our own experience and does not replace that of a professional. We will always advocate for seeking professional help when necessary. We may cover sensitive subjects, but we will do our part to link timestamps, questions, and more in the description to know where to skip. Listeners discretion is always advised.

We have been friends for years and have been able to find this lighthearted approach to the challenges we’ve faced. With this podcast, we’ll be talking about those challenges, sharing funny stories from our past, with a main focus on giving advice to young adults, adults, and even teens. We welcome any and all questions ranging from light topics to serious discussions. When submitting your questions, you are welcome to remain anonymous. Details help, but please keep your questions brief (up to 200 words). 

 

Instagram: @youngflirtyandnotthriving

Podcast: Young Flirty and Not Thriving

E-mail: youngflirtyandnotthriving@gmail.com

Google Forms (for advice questions for the show): forms.gle/6EHk4ZNTNqTKPAZT9

 

Timestamps:

Question One: How did you two meet? 24:46

Question Two: How did we decide to do the podcast? 40:21

Question Three: How do I know if I am not mentally healthy? 47:30

 

Resources referenced in this podcast:

• Resources: Dr. Emma Hepburn, Clinical Psychologist @thepsychologymum on IG
• Mental Health Self-Assessment Tool https://www.thinkmentalhealthwa.com.au/mental-health-self-assessment-checklist/
• https://twitter.com/i/events/1414297787261329415